Gospel: Matthew 8: 18-22
How many of us make great boasts to God as the disciples often do in the Gospels: "I'll follow you wherever you go!" "I will die for you!" We may mean it in the moment, but when something else comes along that we think important we find ourselves burying the dead, or worse still denying we even know the Lord. Such it is with us frail humans, which is why grace and forgiveness exist for us to keep trying and do better.
We have our own modern versions of these oaths: all are welcome. We make this statement, but is it really true? We may believe so, until someone we do not like enters our church to join us for worship. We find ourselves not so very welcome. We think it great that Jesus healed all and excluded no one from his care and love, but when asked to do likewise and to follow the Lord in that behavior we find excuses not to do so.
Jesus ate at table with and washed the feet of the one who betrayed him, the one who denied him, and everyone else who abandoned him. Even after his death, in resurrection Jesus could have embarked on a revenge tour, but instead he ate with these same people, extending peace and love to them. Yes, to follow the Lord means to do these same deeds, to work each day at being better in our imitation of the one we call teacher and Lord.