Gospel: John 19: 25-27
John is the only Gospel that records Mary and the Beloved Disciple present at the crucifixion of Jesus; the other three Gospels are united in their accounting that Mary Magdalene and other women were at the cross. John is not interested in historical accuracy in this scene. The interest is in making a theological point about the event of Jesus' death and what it all means in the grand scope of salvation history to the very beginning.
John places Mary and the Beloved Disciple at the cross - a woman and a man before a tree. Two streams flow around them leading to a garden. Jesus entrusts the woman and the man to each other in a relationship of mutual care. John has recreated the Garden of Eden. This event of Jesus' death has restored humanity to its original innocence, restored the relationships of mutual trust and care among human beings.
The Way of Jesus leads us to death to self, and in so doing leads us to the innocence of Eden before the Fall. The death of the self leads to restored relationships among human beings. The death of Jesus is not cosmic magic. It is an event we must live within ourselves, putting our own selves upon the gibbet of the cross. We might weep at the death of the self until we realize where it leads - a new way of life free of conflict with others, full of the innocence of our original creation.